I'm
2 years older than Paula Deen and am having a hard time getting
worked up about her use of the word nigger. Considering how and when
I've heard it during my six decades on this planet, I used to believe
that it was one of the first words that white people taught their
kids to say after "ma ma" and "da da."
My
first reaction to Paula Deen in fact was "damn..an honest white
person."
When
a white person tells me that they never use the word now, nor have
they used it in the past, I don't believe them for a second. You see
I've heard it coming from all sorts of so called friends, allies,
acquaintances and lovers. Nigger rolled off their tongues as easily
as it did some of the skin headed white supremacists that I've had
the displeasure of meeting during my days as a television news
reporter. Of course, those who considered themselves my friend,
apologized profusely claiming not to know where “that” came from.
I
know where it came from. We live in the United States of Amerikkka, a
country stolen from the indigenous, built by blacks kidnapped from
Africa, now lived in and ruled over by white euro-centric people who
claim ignorance or amnesia. They just want all us brown and black
people to get over it and stop reminding them of their thievery and
on-going bigotry, now cloaked within their so called post racial
first amendment rights to say and to do what they please, whenever they
please.
Paula
Deen didn't slip up. She fessed up. Said “hell yeah, I said it!
What?” White privilege in full view for those who still need a
clue.
We'd
be a lot further along in this country if more people would admit
they have no problem calling me a nigger when I'm looking at them,
rather than waiting for me to step out of earshot.
I've
always felt that it is better to know your enemy than to be
blindsided by someone claiming to be friend or ally. Been there, had
it happen. Ain't gonna let it happen again.
The
word is not nearly as dangerous as it was back in the day. Times were
when you heard it out loud, you were probably in a very precarious
place, hopefully with a visible escape route. Most of the people
yelling and screaming and cussing today about Paula Deen have never
been in that kind of daily danger. They just heard us old people talk
about it and feel they should be outraged too.
Today,
it's a part of the general lexicon used by the young to talk amongst
themselves. It's not that they don't see color or are more post
racial then we the elderly, it's just that they grew up with it in a
different context. The white kids learned it from black kids and
black music. They even know the difference when the word is used by
their peers or by their bigoted old grandfather. Ask your kids if
you don't believe me.
It
doesn't matter to them. It's just another word. If you ask them,
they would tell us that it is time to get over it, because it is
probably not going away anytime soon.
My
point is....Nigger is a word. I use when I write. I use it when I
talk. And it didn't break me or kill me back when it was a dangerous
word and mattered.
The
fact that some southern Kentucky fried white woman admits to using
nigger as a regular part of her vocabulary is not gonna anger me nor
make me sweat.
What
pisses me off is that she built a cooking empire on the backs of all
those bow tied, mammy kerchief wearing slaves who probably created
the recipes upon which she makes millions.
Just
another day in the United States of America from my point of view.
Make
her pay for what she stole and I might get excited.
Yeah
right...
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